Swamp of Despair

A brother in Christ called me yesterday, frustrated to the point of drinking over the stress of a toxic relationship. Our conversation was cut short, but we agreed to talk again this morning.

That was a blessing.

It gave me time not only to think about his situation, but more importantly, to pray about it and ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom. How can I be a voice for God’s intervention in his life?

His struggle isn’t unique. It’s the kind of drift that happens to countless brothers—and sisters—who stray from the narrow path. It can happen when we walk through life complacent--on "autopilot."

Suddenly, we are faced with a choice. Do we take the easy-appearing detour around the bank of the swamp in front of us, although there is no path? Or should we carefully balance our way across the fallen tree that connects the narrow path?

Fail to recognize the true Way, take the easy way, and suddenly we find ourselves sinking in the Swamp of Despair. The true Way requires us to remain vigilant, always aligned and focused on Jesus.

As I prayed, I thought, Doesn’t this sound like The Pilgrim’s Progress by John Bunyan? I sensed immediate confirmation that I was to talk with my brother not only about Bunyan’s allegory, but also to revisit and recommit to Jesus through the Roman Road to salvation.

I didn’t fully understand why God was pressing that direction—but that’s exactly what happened.

I introduced him to The Pilgrim’s Progress and explained why it seemed to fit his situation. It immediately resonated with him. The allegory gave language to what he was experiencing—and it pointed him back toward the narrow gate.

As we talked, something he said made me think. It made me wonder if he had ever truly professed Jesus as Lord and believed in his heart that God raised Him from the dead.

So we walked the Roman Road together: sin, separation, consequence, grace, and the call to respond.

And there, on the phone, he was ready. Whether for the first time, or as a recommitment, I don't know.

Regardless, he entered the Way through the narrow gate—no shortcuts, no assumptions, no vague “I’m probably fine.” He spoke his profession of faith plainly.

Before we hung up, he ordered The Pilgrim’s Progress. We agreed to begin reading it and studying God’s Word together.

Step by step, we follow the narrow path as pilgrim brothers.

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“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name.” John 1:12 (NKJV)

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23 (NKJV)

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8 (NKJV)

“That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9 (NKJV)